My Lover Doesn't Want to Meet Me, Why?
How Right is Jealousy in Love?
Both women and men can make mistakes in relationships, and everyone has various excuses for not meeting their lover. If you're saying, "I have a problem, my lover doesn't want to meet me!", let's ponder the reasons for this from both men's and women's perspectives! Especially men don't much like constant messages and photos, excessive attention, and details. And women? Some women also shy away from excessive jealousy and attention. But there's one truth: too much fuss tires out love for both sexes. If your mind is confused and you have question marks about the direction of your relationship, there might be some behaviors you've unintentionally exhibited that are causing your lover to drift away. First, let's look at the bright side. When women's lovers don't want to meet them, instead of thinking "maybe they don't have money," they worry "there's definitely someone else." Men fall into the same trap. Today's women - especially metropolitan women - are women who have taken financial power into their own hands. They might not want to come to a meeting due to financial reasons. Family pressure is another factor for societies like ours. There are women who cannot get permission from their families for fear of not being labeled a "good, obedient daughter at home" but do not share this openly. Similarly, we know that men also rarely bring up problems related to their relatives and even act as if they don't exist. In such domestic and family problems, these might be the reason why meetings are not as frequent as before. Both women and men cannot tolerate excessive pressure and jealousy.
Behavior and Compatibility
First of all, we should self-reflect and it's beneficial to measure whether we are exhibiting an insistent, overwhelming attitude. As is known, women spend time on personal care. For men, it's as important as football matches, poker nights, and computer games. Unfortunately, the understanding shown to these personal interests may not be as much as the time allocated. Also, time allocated to friends can cause less time to be spent within relationships. We can try to approach this with understanding and give our lover time. Perhaps they might be in a situation regarding one of their friends that they cannot share with us. Being a Pollyanna, at least if it's someone we trust and value, can bring us positive things within a certain period. If these excuses and avoiding meetings continue excessively and this bothers us a lot, then the bells of separation have already begun to toll! Sometimes, no matter what you do, it won't work, and we must accept that making women happy is truly difficult! Without experiencing something worse, before our fears come true, we should end this relationship that won't go far without dragging it out and move on with our lives. Otherwise, we must know that we will be the ones to be upset. If there are troubles, there is a cure! Remember, you come before everyone and everything; be well yourself first, and the rest will follow!
